Introduction
The essays “I Want a Wife” by Judy Brady and “Peculiar Benefits” by Roxane Gay both discuss privilege. While it is the main theme of both works, each takes its own approach to presenting the problem. This essay will discuss and compare the ways they do this.
Judy Brady’s Approach
Both essays discuss the concept of privilege, but they do so in different ways. The essay “I Want a Wife” by Judy Brady uses satire and humor to highlight the privileges that husbands typically enjoy in a marriage. The essay lists all the tasks and responsibilities a wife is expected to fulfill, such as taking care of the children, cooking, cleaning, and providing emotional support (Brady 20-21). The author emphasizes the inequality and unfairness of these expectations, highlighting husbands’ privilege in not having to do these tasks themselves.
Roxane Gay’s Approach
The second essay, “Peculiar Benefits,” by Roxane Gay, is a more personal and introspective exploration of privilege. The author considers her past experiences as a woman of color and acknowledges the privileges she has had in her life, such as being raised in a middle-class family and receiving a good education (Gay 22-23). She also discusses the challenges and discrimination she has faced, highlighting the complexity of privilege and how it intersects with other forms of oppression.
Comparing the Two Essays
In terms of effectiveness, both essays present their cases in different ways. “I Want a Wife” effectively uses satire to highlight the absurdity of gender roles and expectations in marriage. The humorous and engaging essay helps capture the reader’s attention and make them think about the privileges that husbands often take for granted. However, it is essential to note that the essay was written in 1971, and some of the issues it addresses may not be as relevant today. “Peculiar Benefits” is practical in its personal and introspective approach.
The author’s personal experiences and reflections make the essay relatable and allow the reader to connect with the author on a deeper level. The essay also encourages readers to reflect on their privileges and consider how they can use them to create positive change. However, the essay may not be as accessible to a broader audience as it assumes a certain level of familiarity with concepts of privilege and oppression. Both essays have a similar audience in that they address issues of privilege and inequality.
Nevertheless, the tone and presentation of the essays are quite different. “I Want a Wife” is more light-hearted and humorous, while “Peculiar Benefits” is more introspective and serious. This difference in tone reflects the authors’ different approaches to discussing privilege.
Conclusion
Overall, both essays effectively present their cases and address issues of privilege. However, “I Want a Wife” may appeal to a broader audience due to its humorous and engaging tone. On the other hand, “Peculiar Benefits” may be more relatable to readers who have a deeper understanding of privilege and are interested in personal reflections on the topic. In conclusion, both essays provide insights into the concept of privilege, but from different perspectives. Judy Brady uses humor and exaggeration to critique gender roles and expectations, while Roxane Gay reflects on her privilege and the challenges of accepting it. Both essays encourage readers to examine their privilege and consider its societal implications.
Works Cited
Brady, Judy. “I Want a Wife.” Ms.. 1971.
Gay, Roxane. “Peculiar Benefits.” Bad Feminist, Harper Perennial, 2014, pp. 22-25.