Introduction
Domestic violence refers to the frequent harassments of a family by one of their members resulting into serious quarrels among the parties involved; which may result into a fight. Order protection on the other hand refers to the order from the court of law that provides protection for an abuse; especially among families. Meanwhile, aggressive behavior refers to act of getting violent very fast when one is wronged while stalking refers to the kind of harassment where an individual is repeatedly abused without a legitimate cause. More so, consequences refer to the outcomes of an evil act while intimidation and violence refers to the act of threatening another person without a genuine reason as well as offering some kind of torture to him or her (Wilson 200-211).
Perhaps, the ability to get angry fast and being unable to control the anger has been revealed to be one of the main causes of domestic violence. In this case, many men find it impossible to control their anger and as a result end up beating their wives and children in which such practices leads to the stir-ups in the families thereafter. More specifically, when the couples fail to control their anger ending up in a fight; this may in a way present the family with subsequent quarrels which disturb peace and harmony in the family for a long time. More so, when interment partners abuse each other, their level of trust and love that had previously existed is evaded leading to a consequent family break-up (Wilson 209-224).
Family violence has been revealed to cause a lot of problems in which; family issues remain unsolved for long, once spouses get into frequent domestic violence. As a result, financial support from each of the spouses is restrained leading to subsequent lack poor child support and even lack of basic needs. However, the government in this case has provided for spouses which are being harassed to report the case to the court of law for order protection. In this case, the court establishes a network of protective devices to the harassed party by punishing the particular members who cause the domestic violence. More specifically, the order of protection would be meant to establish rapport among couples and cherish peace and harmony among families (Wilson 265-288).
Further, spouses should be committed to each other in running family affairs in which all the members of the family ought to play a role in ensuring the well being of the family. By being mindful of other peoples’ rights spouses should develop the tendency to care for each other and correct each other in peace but not to be violent. On this base therefore, interment partners ought to cherish the values of a healing mind, body and the soul in which they ought to understand their need for co-existence. More specifically, the partners should develop passion for correcting each other in peace and promoting the good fruits of self control, tolerance and patience (Wilson 257-289).
Generally, the members in families should be accountable of their own actions in which; every member of the family should learn to play his/her role satisfactorily enhancing coherence and harmony in the family. By so doing the partners would be cherishing better life in which jealousy would not have place to dominate; leading to well coordinated family with its members having high self esteem.
Conclusion
As revealed in various researches, many family violence cases are as a result of failure to control anger, being not ready to accept responsibilities and lacking healing values of the mind, the body and the soul. Generally, violence in most families has been gender based where the government has issued the order protection for various harassed parties.
Works cited
Wilson, Lambert. “When Violence Begins at Home: A Comprehensive Guide to Understanding and Ending Domestic Abuse”. New York: Hunter House Publishers. (1997): 200-289.